My Son

In a few months my Prince will be welcomed to the world. Knowing this has me feeling a bunch of mixed emotions. Im scared, excited, nervous, worried, proud, sad, happy all at the same time. Everybody is telling me don't worry that this is normal. How can this be normal for ones emotions to go through so much at one time.

There are times when i cant wait to see his face, to see what I helped create. Then there are the times when i sit and ask myself what the fucc did I just get myself into!!! There are times when ill sit and plan how im going to dress him and what im going to get him involved in. The times when I say I hope he act just like me, have my attitude, my street and book smarts. But in the same breath the worries come. If he is like me will he finish school, will he join a gang, will he smoke, will he drink, will he have a good relationship with me.

Now on the flip-side of things one thing that i know is that he will never want for anything. My support system is one of the strongest anybody can ask for. Shit he will be more loved and worried about then me. His moms strong woman who i know will take care of him to her last breath. His Godmother my best friend who if anytime will hold him down like she pushed him out. His godfather my brother from another be more excited and nervous then me lol its all love. His grandmother my moms her first grandchild will be like the second son she couldn't have. My numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. And plenty of good friends shit he getting gifts already and he is not even here yet!!

I guess knowing that I will have so much help should make me feel better, but its not i guess thats the fright of a first time parent. I do know that I will love him, teach him, nourish him, provide for him, protect him with every fiber of my skinny being.

So to my Prince Amir when you grace us with your presence in March with your handsome features be healthy and prepared to be overwhelmed with an abundance of love and admiration. And takes daddies worries and fears away.

Love you My Prince,
Daddy

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So u like them big do you???

Most women claim to love a big ego. But sometimes u run into a love muscle that get u shook. It is quite easy to get intimidated by a larger package. It is even easier if you have never had a man that big. There are women I know who are flat out against dealing with a man bigger than 8 inches and I have come to learn it is because they simply don’t know any better. So I have done a little research, and came up with some things that will help you get right up to the challenge of the super sized D.

• STRETCH: Yes, Stretch. I don’t mean the vajay-jay, I mean the other muscles that you use , your legs, hip, and glutes. The looser you are, the more relaxed your body will be.
• THINK POSITIVELY: You will be surprised as to how much of your fear is mental. The vagina is a muscle, it stretch and it won’t just snap. Women birth babies for crying out loud, you can handle it.
• RELAX: Tension will only make the experience awkward. Also, the man is already big, do you want him to try forcing it in too? Tension can create a painful situation where there needn’t be one.
• BREATHE DEEP: This goes hand in hand with relaxing. Deep breaths calm you down, and get the blood flowing at an easy pace. Take deep breaths as he enters you, he will be in there and you will be getting it on before you know it.
• KNOW YOUR LIMITS: This mean just what it says. If you feel pain or severe discomfort, STOP. You can injury yourself if you don’t and you have nothing to prove. You know your body best, manage your participation and tolerance accordingly.
• COMMUNICATE: Talk to your partner about your apprehensions. If they are into you, they will know how to handle it and do their best to make your comfortable and make it the best sexual experience possible. And if they don’t you shouldn’t be dealing with them.

DID I MISS ANYTHING???

A Little Advice To The Men Women Feel Free To Share

If she’s not feeling loved, she WILL find someone to love her…better than you at that.

• Is this is your girl, wifey, or Jump off. I know its an unwritten Man Law that you can’t show a girl that you like them, but damn dudes show your GIRL that you actually care. And showing that you actually care doesn’t mean buying them the most expensive thing in Macy’s although expensive gifts don’t hurt. But try making something for them or doing something a little unique like planning a picnic, writing a poem, or just lip syncing your song to them. Doesn’t matter if you can write or not it’s just the thought that matters. Now there is one exception to this rule. Make sure this is your girl this method may not work w/ Jump offs or Buddies.

Celebrate small things, like the 3 month anniversary, or the first kiss, It’s gets you MAD Brownie points.

• Remember she’s still a girl, no matter how much of an independent woman she claims to be, Girls are mushy, and they like to know that you’re paying attention. So a simple card or candle can go a long way in building a relationship into a stable foundation for the future and is the 2 of you.

Let your nuts hang and she’ll love you more.

• You got balls don’t you? Act like it. No females wants a man she can walk all over so have a backbone tell her no sometimes and then surprise her when she least expect it. Going out this weekend make the plans trust me if she isn’t bout it she’ll let you know. Take the lead, tell her what the 2 of you are going to be doing tonight. If you’re worried about if she will like it, then you haven’t been paying attention to anything she’s being saying. Change careers.

Tit-tays love much licky and sucky.

• You have to be sure that in the heat of the moment you don’t ignore the nipples. Love the breast and be sure to show them equal attention. Start at the top work your way counterclockwise w/ your tongue. To a female only a few things are worst then one hard nipple.

Plan the occasional swaggerlicious get fly date and go out of town for the weekend, basically be unpredictable.

• Women get tired of the same ole routine week in and week out. Blockbusters nights are cool on a rainy night, but not all the time. If her boyfriend is lame then a dude like me has no problem taking another man’s girl out and giving her the time of her life and best believe that next weekend I will have her in my room w/ her ankles on her earlobes while Dru Hill’s Somebody’s Sleeping In My Bed plays in the background as a thrust the manxilla to the beat.

She thinks you’re sexy after you get a fresh line up, when your fixing things, rapping your favorite song, dipping through traffic, eating a peach, holding a baby, or reading.

• What do all of those things have in common? They are all simple things. you don’t have to do too much to impress a woman who likes you. If you find yourself having to do some World Strongest Man shit like picking up a car w/ your pinky, blindfolded while doing the superman dance in order to impress your old lady. Then you might need to end that relationship early. A good woman is turned on by the simple things like telling her the truth.

Talk Dirty to her in public.

• Next time you’re with your girl in the supermarket walk up behind her while shes picking out produce and whisper in her ear that you want to fuck the shit out of her right on top of the Red Peppers and discreetly feel on your booty while you do it. Now it might not happen then and there but when you get home and after you’re done helping her w/ put away the food. The Kitchen might become the scene of your own Debbie Does Dallas.

It’s cheating as soon as you’re doing something with her that you wouldn’t want your girl to see, hear, read…(Yes Facebook Comments Count)

• I’m really surprised at the number of girls who have ended a potential relationship b/c some random chick left some shit on their dudes facebook wall. Fellas if you know you have an ace in the pocket why ruin it w/ a jump off w/ a loud mouth. But if you get caught and you know your boo is not your girl yet why lie about it? Girls are a lot more forgiving then you think they are. Tell her the truth. Women want a choice its an essential need to their existence. So simply put Stop Lying.

Do You Have The Good To Keep Him Coming Bacc?? Written by Joyous

Ladies how do you reaaallly….REAAALLLY know you have the goods that keep him coming back? I know you just read that question and answered to yourself: Because he keeps coming back!! But what if he doesn’t? Does that mean the box was trash? Is there such a thing as bad vag? Would you believe the dude if he told you it wasn’t good? Ladies believe it or not sometimes it’s US, not THEM. I know as women we all think our loving is good enough to end world wars but the truth is there may be a man out there who think yours is WACK! Here’s my guide to tell if you’ve got that come-back coochie.

• Moisture: A man loves that natural, warm, wetness. Sure there’s all kinds of products out there to keep the slope slippery but there’s nothing like a real sheet soaker!
• Feel: Iron-clad tightness goes out the window with your virginity but you can keep them walls taut. Don’t NO man want a sloppy, loose cooch so ladies if you’re not doing kegels…you better start now! Having control of your vaginal muscles will be pleasing to him and you during sex.
• Rhythm: “Shorty threw it like a quarterback. I caught that like Rice” ~Jay-Z. Every time you turn around someone in music is dropping a line about what they like during sex. It’s actually hidden instructions, so take note. Work that pelvis ladies! It’s all attached like that for a reason. Don’t just lie there!!
• Appearance: (1) A healthy vagina is a happy vagina. Don’t be giving up the goods if it ain’t all good down there. Bad smells & crazy discharge is a sure fire way to make sure he DOESN’T come back. Y’all know when you’re not right down there so don’t play yourself in that situation and make him wait. It’ll be worth it. And you won’t be embarrassed. (2) To each her own in the looks department but if your partner likes it a certain way try it one time to see if things change in the bedroom. Just keep an open mind. You know the saying: You cant see the forest through the trees? Read between the bush!! It’ll grow back.

Now I’m only speaking to the instance of the vagina alone. I know that there are many factors that go into being a great lover overall. But ladies check your vaginas at the bed first. Keep your goods intact. Keep him coming back!

Just A Thought

Ladies if your talking to a man and he talks bad about another dude to try to get in. Imagine what he saying about you to his boys. HMMMMMMMM

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Oral Sex Positions

Oral Sex Positions Tip #1 – On Your Knees:

This classic position (well classic in porn anyway) can evoke the power dynamics in oral sex well. Despite being usually represented as a position for fellatio, a woman can also receive oral sex while standing with a partner kneeling in front of them. Benefits of this position are the visuals, the fact that the giving partner may be able to use their hands, as well as being a position that doesn’t require a lot of room and can be gotten into and out of relatively quickly. The drawback is that it’s hard on the knees (a pillow under them helps a bit) and it can be hard on the neck as well.

Oral Sex Positions Tip #2 – Between the Legs:

A much more comfortable position than being on your knees, in this common position the receiving partner lies on the back with the giver further down between their legs. There are a lot of variations on this position where the receiving partner bends their knees or lifts their legs right up off the bed (they can rest on the givers shoulders). The receiving partner can also turn on their side, and this may be even more comfortable for a giving partner who has neck problems.

Oral Sex Positions Tip #3 – Right Angle Approach:

In this position the receiving partner lies flat on their back and the giving partner positions themselves at a right angle with head at their partners genitals. Giving oral sex at this position changes the usual direction of stroking/licking from up-and-down to side-to-side. Side-to-side stimulation, particularly for women can be more intense and may be preferred. This position also allows the giver greater hand reach if they want to stimulate the legs and feet or head of their partner.

Oral Sex Positions Tip #4 – Face Sitting:

If you’re prone to giggling this may not be the oral sex position for you as it may remind you of a childhood game in a non-sexy way. Otherwise this position can work well, particularly with a woman on top. It’s great if the giver has any mobility restrictions or fatigues easily, and it also provides a lot of dominance/submission potential. The receiver can sit over the givers face either crouching or with their shins on the bed, and can even lean forward and support their own upper body with their hands (so they’re kind of in a rear entry position).

Oral Sex Positions Tip #5 – On the Edge of Your Seat:

A more relaxed version of the on your knees position, in this one the receiver sits in a comfy chair with their bum out towards the edge (this also works on the edge of a bed or couch of course). This position is much easier for the giver who can be on their knees or sitting but can shift some of the weight of their own body from their knees to their upper body by using the chair for some support. One drawback to this position is that it doesn’t offer the same kind of access to the receiver’s full body.

Build A Bigger Orgasm

1. Start by Breathing

Orgasm has the potential to be a full body experience, and breath provides the foundation of the experience. You can build on your orgasms by playing with your breathing. Start by paying attention to your breath during sex.
Do you find yourself holding your breath and tensing up? Do you notice that your breath changes from a slow and deep to short and quick?
Next, experiment with the depth and pacing of your breath. Try to intentionally change your breath as you feel yourself approaching orgasm. Some people find that longer and deeper breathing at the point of orgasm can expand their awareness of the orgasm in other parts of their bodies. If you find yourself losing steam you can also try short quick breaths (being careful not to hyperventilate!).

2. Move Your Body

Moving your body may be an obvious part of having sex, but when it comes to orgasm, a lot of us tense up and hold ourselves almost still, which can get in the way of having an orgasm or having a bigger orgasm. You can change your orgasm by changing how much you move and what parts of your body you move. Start by paying attention to how your body moves during sex and at the point of orgasm.
Are there parts of your body you aren’t moving at all that you could be moving? Are you self-conscious about how you move your body during sex?
Now experiment during masturbation with different sex positions and different kinds of movement. If rocking your hips doesn’t work for you try shaking your arms or legs or just letting your whole body writhe. If you are self-conscious about trying this with a partner, start with the lights off, or under the covers. Make a game of it and agree to have sex once while trying to move as many different parts of your body as possible. As you do this pay attention to see if one or more movements feel particularly good.

3. Find Your Line, Then Mess with It

Our obsession with orgasms often means we’re in such a hurry to get there that we lose out on the build-up. Many people report that orgasms resulting from a slow build-up or arousal are more powerful than quickie orgasms. Start by figuring out where your line is: that point at which you go over the top and have an orgasm.
Can you always tell when you’re about to have an orgasm?
What are the signs that you feel in your body that happen just before orgasm?
Your next step is to prolong the period before orgasm. It’s much easier to try this by yourself. Masturbate however you normally would and just when you get to the brink of orgasm, slow things down. Keep the stimulation going, but let yourself step back from the line a bit. Then start again until you get close to the line. Try this three or four times before letting yourself orgasm. The authors of I Love Female Orgasm describe their version of this game which they call “The Magic of Ten." In this version, you get yourself to the point of orgasm and then switch position and kind of stimulation. Do this ten times before letting yourself go.

4. Exercise Your Pelvis

This tip won’t work for everyone, but if you have movement in your pelvis and don’t experience pelvic pain, you can try to build better orgasms by strengthening the pelvic muscles called the pubococcygeus muscles. Strengthening exercises for the PC muscles are called kegel exercises, and doing these increases blood flow to the pelvic area. Some people report that stronger PC muscles result in stronger orgasms. Simply doing the exercises also increases awareness of your pelvis which itself can lead to more intense orgasms.

5. Think Outside Your Box

If you’re looking for bigger orgasms you need to think beyond your genitals. It’s not that the vulva, clitoris, penis, and scrotum aren’t key players in the orgasm orchestra, but your body is full of nerve endings just waiting to be aroused, and orgasms can come from unexpected places. Sometimes stimulating another part of your body while bringing yourself to orgasm can really change the way the orgasm feels. Next time you’re having sex, alone or with a partner, spend some time playing with other parts of your body. Don’t just think of this as foreplay, really concentrate on where feels good, and when you’ve found a spot, experiment with different intensities of stimulation.

6. Tense and Relax

When you have an orgasm, muscles throughout your entire body are engaged. But often during sexual arousal and orgasm, we unintentionally isolate parts of our body, and tense or relax only those parts. One way to build better orgasms is to start integrating your whole body into the experience, including your muscles. Start by taking note of those parts of your body where you feel muscle tension and relaxation before, during, and after orgasm. If you find yourself tensing up at the point of orgasm, try to use your breath to relax your muscles. If you find that only one part of your body tenses up, intentionally tense up another part and see how that feels during orgasm. Play with the tension of muscles by tensing up, holding for a few seconds, and then relaxing.

7. Good Fantasies and Bad Fantasies

Using fantasy to build better orgasms can be both a help and a hindrance. Fantasy is great if helps you “let go” and follow your erotic thoughts. If you’re someone who finds it hard to get aroused, fantasy can be a crucial first step. But some of us use fantasy as a way of staying outside our bodies and distracting ourselves from what we’re feeling. If you’re someone who relies on fantasy most of the time, you may want to experiment with not fantasizing and focusing on what your body is feeling. If you never allow yourself to fantasize then it may be time to give it a try and see how it can change the way your orgasms feel. Read more about sexual fantasy.

8. Play With Toys

Sex toys, vibrators in particular, are often the easiest and fastest way to an orgasm, and the kinds of orgasms you have when you play with toys can feel very different. Sex toys are not essential for good sex or great orgasms, but they can be great both for the added stimulation they offer and for the way they remind us that sex is play. Using sex toys can also facilitate sexual fantasies, and if you’re using toys for penetration, it offers the chance to choose your size (something we don’t always get to do with our real life partners). Learn more about choosing sex toys.

9. Get Wet

If store-bought sex toys aren’t your thing, try using water. Rushing water from a shower head or from a bathtub faucet offers strong and consistent stimulation that is very different from the stimulation of a hand, or rubbing against fabric or furniture and can result in a very different kind of orgasm. Try masturbating in the shower or bath. Playing in the tub is also an easy way to alleviate concerns about sex being too messy or wet, either alone or with a partner

Happiness

Oftentimes u give others the opportunity to create your happiness, and many times they fail to create it the way u want it. Why? Because only 1 person can be in charge of your joy and that's u. So even your parent, your child your spouse-they don't have the control to create your happiness. They simply have the opportunity to share in your happiness. Your joy lies within you.

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Realizations

2010 was full of realization moments. From realizing that some family members and supposed close friends will hurt you more than a person you believe was really your enemy. That sometimes your biggest supporters are not the people you have been around for years but sometimes the strangers that you just happened to converse with one day.That their are too many males playing some deadly emotional games with females. That there are too many females who will settle for less then they deserve. That the birth of my son will be one of the happiest and most life changing experiences i will ever face. Ive realized that no one can help you succeed you have to believe in yourself and be determined to get the outcome u want. Ive realized that social networking and technology is dumbing people down rapidly, they are losing conversation skills at a rapid pace. Ive realized that the older i become the more deaths are occurring and with each one i lose piece of myself and become a little more numb to it all. Ive realized that you have to love who loves you. Ive realized that patience is a talent that takes practice to master. Ive realized that may people judge the book by its cover without even taking a look at whats inside. This is a just a taste of my 2010 realizations. What have you realized? TALK TO ME!!!

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